Every day, social media showcases stories of people celebrating new homes, expensive cars, and growing investments. Those posts often become the benchmark by which people unknowingly compare themselves. But now, a very different kind of post is making rounds online. It is not about achieving more. It is about learning to be at peace with where you are.Shared by a 35-year-old X user, the post has found a place in conversations across social media because it shifts the focus from material milestones to personal progress. Many users said they found the message relatable, with several calling it a refreshing break from the pressure of constantly trying to keep up.
A post that looked beyond money and possessions
The post was shared by X user Ashish Jain. He wrote that he does not own a house, does not own a car, does not have a big bank balance or a huge portfolio of stocks or mutual funds, and does not have what he described as a great job.But that was only one part of his story.Ashish went on to share that he lives in a decent rented home, can afford to travel by Uber, has zero debt, has a better body than he did a year ago, and is mentally better than he was last year.He also explained how his priorities have changed over time. He said he has stopped stressing over things that will not matter a year from now. He no longer puts pressure on himself to buy a house or a car, worries less about the future, and focuses more on his physical and mental health. He added that he has been smoke-free for more than a year and has reduced his consumption of junk food. He ended his post with a simple message that many people appreciated:“It’s okay. You need not have everything figured out. It’s okay. Just live each day as it comes and focus on yourself.”
Social media users say the message hits home
The post quickly attracted reactions from people who said they could relate to his outlook on life.One user commented, “Zero debt, zero stress about tomorrow, quit smoking, quit the comparison game. That’s a stronger balance sheet than most 35-year-olds I know. Kudos, Ashish!”Another wrote, “I absolutely agree with this, Ashish. This is the most practical way to live, with gratitude and knowing it’s you versus you, not you versus someone’s Instagram lifestyle.”A third said, “He who gives the beak also provides the grain!”Another user shared, “Absolutely, Ashish. At 35, zero debt, a healthier body and mind, and no more pointless stress over ‘should haves’ is real success. Thanks for the reminder. Focusing on what we can control each day beats chasing a checklist. Keep going strong!”Many others echoed similar thoughts.One person wrote, “Success isn’t just what you own. It’s also the peace, health and growth you build within.”Another added, “Ashish, so many good things in such a short time. This is inspiring and motivating.”A different user remarked, “Zero debt is more underrated than people realise.”Disclaimer: The views and experiences shared in the X post are those of the creator and social media users featured in the report. The Times of India has not independently verified the personal claims made in the post. The report is based on publicly available social media content and reactions. Thumb image: Canva (for representative purposes only)
